Gladiator Women

I recently came across an article about what the Year of the Snake symbolizes in Chinese culture, and I was fascinated. It made me reflect on my own journey and the story I have to tell.

Embracing My Inner Snake

My Chinese zodiac sign happens to be the snake. I still remember those paper placemats at Chinese restaurants that listed all the zodiac signs. Out of all the animals, I was assigned the snake—and to say I was disappointed would be an understatement. I never liked snakes. Not many people do.

But fate has a sense of humor. Years later, I met my husband, a reptile enthusiast who kept several snakes. Over time, I learned more about these creatures—their survival instincts, adaptability, and resilience. And now, as I reflect on my life, I realize how much I can relate to them.

The Meaning of the Snake Year

In Chinese culture, the Year of the Snake represents wisdom, transformation, calmness, and creativity. It’s believed to be a time for personal growth and shedding what no longer serves us—just as a snake sheds its skin.

I don’t typically follow astrology, but this idea resonated with me. The start of a new year naturally brings reflection. As I look back on 2024, it was filled with hardship—my husband’s ongoing heart issues, multiple surgeries, and the implantation of a defibrillator/pacemaker at just 45 years old. The financial strain of being the sole provider for our family has been overwhelming. On top of that, my oldest daughter left for college—nine hours away. And I miss her terribly.

Despite all of this, I choose to believe in transformation. I choose to believe that 2025 will be a year of renewal and rediscovery.

Shedding the Old, Embracing the New

My goal for this year is simple: to remember who I am. To rediscover myself beyond being a wife, mother, and provider. The past few years have worn me down, and when I look in the mirror, I no longer recognize myself. I see exhaustion. I see someone who has been in survival mode for far too long.

But change requires a catalyst. It demands a deep desire to break free from old patterns. Like a snake shedding its skin, I must let go of what no longer serves me and step into a new version of myself.

A Journey of Self-Discovery

This year, I am making myself a priority. For too long, I’ve put myself on the back burner, consumed by the needs of my family. And I know I’m not alone—so many mothers do this without even realizing it. We sacrifice ourselves for our children, our spouses, our responsibilities. But it’s time for a change.

Maybe you’re reading this and feel the same way. Maybe 2025 is your year to put yourself first, to embrace transformation, and to rediscover the person you were meant to be. Let’s embrace this journey together- step by step, shedding the past, and stepping into the future with purpose and strength. 

Warmest Brews,

Tenia